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The Pen Is in Your Hand—Stop Letting Other People Scribble in Your Book

6/9/2025

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Once upon a time (which is how all great stories begin, unless they’re written by Quentin Tarantino), you were born into a world already scribbled on. From the moment your fresh little lungs screamed you into existence, everyone around you began writing your story for you. They gave you a name, told you what was right and wrong, what to believe, how to act, who to vote for, what God looks like (usually a lot like Santa), and whether pineapple belongs on pizza (sometimes.) Before you could even hold a crayon without eating it, the world had already outlined your plotline. But here's the divine twist: you’re not a side character in someone else’s novel—you’re the author of your own damn epic.

Stop Letting Other People Be Your Ghostwriters
If you’ve ever found yourself thinking, “Why does my life feel like someone else is driving and I’m just a confused Uber passenger who forgot to set a destination?”—well, congratulations. You’ve just realized you’ve been outsourced.
Society, religion, parents, teachers, your Aunt Dolores with the mole that looks like Elvis—they’ve all taken turns writing your chapters. They’ve handed you roles like “The Good Girl,” “The Obedient Son,” “The Quiet One,” “The Screw-Up,” or “The One Who’s Gonna Be a Doctor Even Though He Passes Out at the Sight of Blood.”
But you, my friend, are not an actor in their play. You are the playwright. You are the pen-wielder-in-chief. And if you don’t believe that, let me ask you a simple question:
Who’s holding the pen right now? (If your answer is “ChatGPT,” I’m going to gently flick your forehead.)

The Blank Page Only Appears When You’re Present
Here's a spiritual truth dressed up like a bumper sticker: You can’t write on a page that’s already filled with yesterday’s crap.
To write a new story, you need blank space—and the only blank space available in this life is the present moment.
The past? That's just yesterday’s newsprint, already printed, folded, and lining someone’s birdcage. The future? That’s tomorrow’s comic strip—it’s not here yet, so don’t try to edit it.
Right now--this breath, this moment, this weird eye contact with your dog who’s definitely judging you—this is your blank page.
And the only way to write on it consciously is to stop reacting based on the plot twists of the past. Because if you're constantly reacting from past programming, you’re not writing—you’re copying and pasting someone else’s trauma template.

“Character in Someone Else’s Story” 
Living by other people’s expectations is like showing up to life wearing someone else’s pants. They don’t fit, they’re not your style, and you keep tripping over the hem.
But here’s the real kicker: the moment you say, “Hey, maybe I want to live my life differently,” people will act like you’ve joined a cult. “What do you mean you don’t believe in guilt anymore?” “What do you mean you don’t think you’re broken?” “What do you mean you’re not going to Sunday brunch with us while we passive-aggressively compare lives?”
The nerve!
But you’re not here to be someone else’s loyal character in their drama. You’re not “Supportive Best Friend #3” or “Rebellious Teen Turned Middle-Aged Cynic.” You’re the protagonist, the narrator, the main event.
And yes, sometimes the plot gets messy. But you know what? That’s when the story gets good.

Conscious Choice: Your Superpower, Baby
You can’t write your own story until you realize you’re not your habits, your upbringing, or your uncle’s weird political opinions. You are the one choosing—whether consciously or unconsciously.
Unconscious choice is like letting a drunken raccoon type your autobiography. You end up with chapters that start with heartbreak and end with 17 open browser tabs and an impulse-purchased samurai sword.
But conscious choice? That’s where the magic happens.
Conscious choice is pausing before you react.
Conscious choice is asking, “Is this really how I want my story to go?”
Conscious choice is saying, “Nah, guilt isn't a great narrator. Let’s try love instead.”
That’s not just powerful. That’s Pulitzer-worthy living.

It’s Not Too Late to Rewrite
You might be sitting there thinking, “Great, John, I’m 60 years into this book, and it’s been mostly a mix of guilt, confusion, and weird chapters titled ‘I Did What They Told Me.’”
Good news: spiritual books don’t follow normal publishing rules.
You can rewrite your life mid-sentence. Heck, you can change genre completely. Been living a tragedy? Flip the page—make it a rom-com. Stuck in a drama? Add some comic relief (preferably involving your cat and an unattended bowl of yogurt).
The Universe doesn’t care how long it took you to pick up the pen. It just gets really excited when you finally do.

Let Love Be Your Editor
Here’s the ultimate trick to writing a story worth living: let love be the editor-in-chief.
Don’t write from fear, obligation, or “because that’s what everyone else did.” Write from love. Write from joy. Write from the deep inner knowing that your story is sacred—even when you’ve got plot holes and spelling errors.
Because when love edits your life, shame gets crossed out.
When love edits, courage gets underlined.
And when love edits, the ending is always a beautiful beginning.

The Moral of the Story
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So here’s your plot twist, dear reader: you were never lost. You were just following someone else’s GPS.
The pen is in your hand. The page is blank. The ink is made of presence, purpose, and probably a little bit of coffee.
Start writing your story today. Not the one your past told you to write. Not the one religion or family drafted for you. But the one where you decide who you are, what you believe, and how the story unfolds.
Just try not to write it like a soap opera. We’ve had enough amnesia and long-lost twin plotlines, thank you. 

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So… Apparently I Might Be John the Beloved. Please Pass the Coffee.

6/6/2025

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Probably Not the Messiah, But Still Worth Listening To
Let me start by saying: I didn’t wake up one morning, stretch, yawn, and declare, “You know what? I think I’m the reincarnation of an ancient apostle today.” That’s not how this went down. I was just a guy with comedy sword-fighting show, an introvert when not on stage,  and a healthy sense of humor about everything—including myself.

Life, as you know, is weird.
Over the years, as I’ve shared my experiences, insights, and that inner knowing that I once walked alongside Jeshua himself, a curious thing happened: 19 different psychics spontaneously started telling me that I walked with Jesus as John the Beloved.  This is not something I wanted no jumped at the chance to live. I tried to avoid this and not become the guy who thinks he's Napoleon.

John, the Beloved's return was foretold.
Turns out, a lot of psychics, mystics, and spiritually nosey folks have talked about the return of John the Beloved. Not just metaphorically, but literally. As in: “He’s back, and he’s probably quietly sipping coffee somewhere trying not to attract attention while calling out the Church with love and sarcasm.”
Sound familiar?

 Sure, But Isn’t That a Bit… You Know… Egotistical?
You’re not wrong for thinking that. Believe me, I’ve wrestled with it. Because nothing sends your spiritual ego into a panic like people sincerely suggesting you might be the guy Jesus trusted enough to care for his mother. That’s not light stuff.
I’ve had to really sit with that. Because the moment your mind goes, “Yeah, maybe I am,” it tries to follow it up with “Maybe I should write a gospel, buy a white robe, or start referring to myself as ‘The Beloved’ at Wawa.”
And that’s where the inner voice of truth has to step in and say:
“Hey, buddy. Don’t get weird. You’re not here to be worshipped. You’re here to remind people they never needed to worship anyone in the first place.”
That’s the line I walk every day—between remembering something deep and ancient within me… and not letting my human ego throw a toga party about it.

 So What Do the Prophets Say?
Well, let me summarize. Apparently:
  • Edgar Cayce said John would reincarnate, having never tasted death, and would show up to clarify Jesus’ teachings—not preach fear, but awaken love.
  • Paul Solomon added that John would return during a time of mass awakening, to liberate people from religious dogma, not start a new religion.
  • Ruth Montgomery talked about walk-ins and highly evolved souls like John showing up quietly during major world shifts.
  • The Cathars (those medieval spiritual rebels who were really into love and reincarnation) believed John would come back during a time of church corruption to speak truth with humility.
  • Even Mormon scripture says John would “tarry” until Christ returns, still wandering around Earth helping people find their light (probably in flip flops and cargo shorts, a long moo-moo).
  • And yes--Benn E. Lewis wrote a vintage novel called I, John,  which he claimed to be a true story, where the apostle reincarnates and shares his message in a modern world. Probably not canon, but hey, interesting party read.
So, taken together, we’ve got an image of a returning soul—not to build temples, but to remind people they are temples.

The Coincidences That Aren’t Coincidences
You know what’s funny? I didn’t start this work trying to prove anything. I didn’t even know most of these prophecies existed when I had my past-life recall. I just knew. It was quiet. It was peaceful. And it felt like a memory coming home—not a revelation to tweet.
But the deeper I went, the more people started telling me how much my message reminded them of something they already knew within themselves. Not the fear-based, guilt-inducing, cross-polishing version we’ve all been fed. But the loving, simple, be-present-and-love-people-like-it’s-your-job version.
And when you align that with what Cayce, Solomon, the Cathars, and even I, John all describe?
Well… let’s just say it’s getting harder to chalk it up to coincidence.

The Ego Trap: Avoiding “Messiah Syndrome
Here’s the deal: this isn’t about identity. It’s about message. If I were here to gather followers, build a spiritual empire, or sell “John the Beloved” bobbleheads, you’d know I took a wrong turn.
But that’s not why I do this.
I’m here to help people:
  • Break free from religious fear and shame.
  • Realize that God was never outside them.
  • See Jesus not as a deity to grovel before, but as an awakened brother who showed the way.
  • Sit in love, be present, and rediscover their own divine spark.
If that sounds like the mission of John the Beloved, cool. But you know what? It should be everyone’s mission. That’s the point.

So… Am I John?
Here’s my honest answer: I remember being him.
But more importantly? I remember the message of simplicity Jeshua revealed to us.
I remember what it felt like to sit at the feet of Jeshua and realize there was nothing to worship—only a presence to feel, a love to share, and a life to live awake.
So whether you believe I’m John, or just John Davis with an overactive memory and a webcam—my goal remains the same:
To bring back the original message.
Not by quoting scripture, but by living the truth of it.
Not to be followed, but to walk beside others until they see the divine within themselves.

Final Thought: If It Walks Like John and Teaches Like John…
Look, I don’t need to be “right.” I don’t need to be “recognized.” I certainly don’t need anyone kissing my hand or calling me “Beloved” at the grocery store.
I simply stay true to the message that’s burning inside me:
  • That you are already worthy.
  • That God lives in your presence.
  • That Jesus wasn’t a Christian.
  • And that no one needs a middleman between them and the Divine.
So if I’m John the Beloved, then I hope I’m doing him proud.
And if I’m just John of New… well, maybe that’s exactly who I was meant to be all along.

 From my Heart to Yours
Still sitting in love. Still sipping coffee. Still not wearing a robe (TRY NOT TO VISUALIZE!).

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The Domino Effect of a Donut: How One Loving Act Ripples Around the World

4/23/2025

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Hello, my friends—John of New here, your friendly neighborhood recovering Catholic, spiritual smart-aleck, and full-time love-pusher. Today, we’re diving into a delicious topic: how one simple, loving act can ripple across the entire world like a cosmic wave of awesomeness.
(Yes, even if that loving act involves a donut. Stay with me.)

It Starts with One 
Let me paint you a picture. Imagine this: You’re in line at a coffee shop. The person in front of you is juggling a toddler, a phone call, and their will to live. They’re frazzled. You can practically see their aura frizzing.
Now, you—being the grounded, heart-centered embodiment of divine consciousness that you are—step up and say, “Hey, I got their coffee. And a donut. Make it sprinkles. Life needs sprinkles.”
Boom. Just like that, you’ve created a ripple. And not the kind that comes from dropping a rock in a pond. No, no—this is the spiritual kind. This is the metaphysical equivalent of setting off a love firework in the sky of human consciousness.

Love is Contagious (In the Good Way)
That tired parent, now sipping on a surprise caramel latte and chewing on a sprinkle-covered blessing, suddenly feels... seen. Supported. Loved. And when they feel loved, something incredible happens: they’re more likely to pass that energy on.
Maybe later that day, instead of snapping at the grocery clerk because they’re out of oat milk (seriously, again?), they offer a smile and a thank you. That clerk—who’s used to being treated like a checkout robot—is lifted. They go home feeling ten percent less like quitting their job and thirty percent more like hugging their cat.
And so it goes.

You Don't Have to Be Gandhi—Just Be Human
Here’s the secret the world’s been hiding behind centuries of incense smoke and holy jargon: You don’t need to be a guru, saint, or prophet to change the world. You just have to be kind on purpose. You have to choose love even when sarcasm, cynicism, or a strongly worded Facebook post would be easier.
Now don’t get me wrong—this isn’t about being a doormat or pretending the world’s not messy. I’ve stepped in the cosmic mud plenty of times. But I’ve also learned this:
One moment of genuine love—given freely, without needing applause or spiritual bonus points--alters the entire energetic fabric of the collective.
That’s not New Age mumbo jumbo. That’s spiritual physics. (Which is like regular physics, but with better hugs.)

Jeshua Did It with Loaves, You Can Do It with Smiles
Let’s go back to the Master himself—Jeshua, a.k.a. Jesus, a.k.a. The Guy Who Really Knew What He Was Talking About (before theologians got ahold of the script).
What did he teach? Love your neighbor. Forgive everybody. Share your bread. Don’t be a jerk.
(Okay, I’m paraphrasing.)
But the man didn’t walk around handing out theology degrees. He walked around healing, feeding, hugging, and cracking a few jokes with the apostles. He knew that love, in action, speaks louder than any sermon.
So what does this mean for you? It means you can change the world just by doing what he did--on a Tuesday at Trader Joe’s.

Your Energy Is Your Message
I talk about this a lot on the John of New YouTube channel, and I’ll say it again here: You are a broadcast tower.
Every thought you think, every word you speak, every action you take--it radiates. Not in a woo-woo, tinfoil-hat way, but in a real, measurable, energetic way. Science is even catching up now and nodding nervously while they try to explain quantum entanglement with spreadsheets.
So when you act in love—even if no one sees it—you are changing the frequency. You’re turning the dial away from fear and toward compassion. You’re dialing in the love station, and it’s got great reception.

One Time, I Held a Door Open…
Let me tell you a story that’ll illustrate this. One day, I held the door open for a guy at the post office. Not a big deal, right? Well, he looked genuinely shocked—as if I had handed him the keys to a new car.
Turns out, he had been having a terrible week. That moment of unexpected kindness? It gave him hope. I saw him at the Post Office a second time and he told me it inspired him to reach out to his estranged daughter. They hadn’t spoken in years.
All because of a door. And maybe the stunning handsomeness of the guy who held it (hey, I gotta throw some humor in here).
But seriously--you never know where your ripple ends.

The Butterfly Flaps Its Wings, and Someone Cries in a Hallmark Commercial
The truth is, our world doesn’t need more arguments, more lectures, or more fear masquerading as righteousness. What it needs—desperately—is real people doing small, conscious things with great love.
You don’t have to march in a protest or build a spiritual empire. You can just:
  • Call someone who’s lonely.
  • Give a sincere compliment.
  • Tip extra.
  • Forgive someone who doesn’t even know they need it.
  • Look your waiter in the eye and say, “Thank you. Really.”
These things? They matter. They echo.

The World You Want Begins with You
We’re so conditioned to think we’re powerless. That the world is too broken. That love is too small to matter.
But that’s the illusion, isn’t it?
Love is not small. It’s the most powerful force in the universe.
It builds bridges. It ends wars. It melts hardened hearts. And sometimes, it buys a stranger a coffee when they really, really need one.
So here’s my challenge to you—my fellow ripple-maker, my co-creator of a better world:
Go make someone’s day weirdly, wildly wonderful.
Start a ripple. Let the love flow. And don’t worry about where it ends. Just know that it will reach places you’ll never see and touch hearts you’ll never know.
And if all else fails—sprinkles. Never underestimate the spiritual power of sprinkles.

With love, laughter, and the occasional holy donut,
– John of New
Your brother in coffee, consciousness, and cosmic ripple effects
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Doing What You Love: The Secret to an Abundant Life (and Bringing God to Earth in the Process)

3/14/2025

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Let’s get one thing straight right out of the gate: You were not sent to this earth to be miserable. I don’t care what some grumpy old theologian told you about suffering being noble or life being a test you’re supposed to barely pass by the skin of your teeth. If that were true, then why did God give us pizza, belly laughs, coffee, and the sheer joy of a dog realizing you’re about to throw the ball? Life is meant to be lived fully, joyfully, and abundantly.

And do you know what unlocks that abundance? Doing what you love.

Why Doing What You Love Is Not Selfish but Sacred
Somewhere along the line, society got this wacky idea that if something feels too good, it must be wrong. “You can’t just do what makes you happy,” they say, shaking their heads with the solemn disappointment of a substitute teacher who just caught a kid throwing spitballs. Well, I’m here to tell you that not only can you do what makes you happy—you must do it!
And here’s why: God is love. If you accept that, then the things that light you up—the activities that make your heart sing, the projects that make time disappear—those are divine. They’re not just random interests; they are breadcrumbs leading you straight to the life you were meant to live. When you do what you love, you’re literally letting God work through you.
Think about it. Have you ever watched someone who really loves what they do? A musician lost in a song, an artist painting like they’re possessed (by inspiration, not demons—let’s not go that route), a teacher lighting up as they explain a subject they adore? There’s a spark in them, an energy. That’s God flowing through their joy.

The Abundance That Follows Passion
Now, some folks hear “do what you love” and immediately picture a broke poet eating ramen in a studio apartment lit by a single candle. But here’s the kicker—when you align with what truly brings you joy, you step into the flow of abundance.
Abundance isn’t just about money (though, let’s be honest, money’s nice—especially if you like eating more than just ramen). It’s about fulfillment, peace, and opportunities falling into your lap like magic. Why? Because the universe (or God, or Source, or the Big Cosmic Vending Machine in the Sky) responds to energy. When you radiate joy and passion, you attract more of it.
How many times have you seen someone make a killing doing something bizarrely specific? The guy who reviews vacuum cleaners on YouTube? The woman who sells hand-knitted sweaters for chickens? The person who turned their obsession with Renaissance Festivals into a thriving business (and an opportunity to wear tights and live in the woods?) These people didn’t play it safe. We followed our weird, wonderful, uniquely us passion, and the universe rewarded us in kind.

But What If I Can’t Quit My Job to Herd Goats in the Alps?
Maybe you’re thinking, “John, I hear you, but my mortgage company isn’t interested in my passion for interpretive dance.” Fair point.
The key isn’t necessarily to drop everything and move to a remote island to carve coconuts (unless that’s your thing, in which case—go for it). The key is to start incorporating what you love now.
If you love writing, write. If you love music, play. If you love baking, start sneaking your secret-recipe cookies into the office and watch the joy spread. The more you nurture your passion, the more doors start opening. Sometimes, those doors lead to new careers. Other times, they lead to a deep sense of satisfaction that spills over into everything else you do.
Your joy is not a luxury—it’s a necessity. A necessity for your well-being and for the world.

Bringing God to Earth (Yes, YOU)
Here’s the big one: When you do what you love, you are quite literally bringing God to Earth.
Let me say that again for the folks in the back: When you do what you love, when you operate in joy, when you create from that space of pure passion, you are manifesting divine energy in physical form. You are making love (the God-kind, not the Barry White kind) tangible.
Imagine a world where everyone did what they loved. Where teachers were actually excited to teach, where customer service reps felt genuinely happy to help, where accountants found joy in their spreadsheets (okay, that last one may be a stretch, but you get the idea). The world would change. Wars wouldn’t make sense. Division would crumble. Because a world aligned with love has no place for fear.
The greatest spiritual act you can perform is to live joyfully. To embody love so fully that it spills out of you and drenches everyone around you in divine goodness.

Your Call to Action (Yes, This is About YOU)
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So here’s your mission, should you choose to accept it (and I really, really hope you do): Start doing what you love--today. Even if it’s just for ten minutes. Even if it’s just in small ways. Even if you think it’s impractical, silly, or unimportant. The world needs your joy. God needs your joy.
Your happiness is not a side quest. It’s the main storyline.
Go. Love. Create. Laugh. Live fully. And in doing so, watch abundance flow into your life like a cosmic high-five from the Divine.
You’ve got this. And hey, if you ever need a reminder, just look at a dog waiting for you to throw the ball. They know what’s up.
Now, go be the light. And if you happen to start a chicken-sweater business along the way, I want a free sample.
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You Always Have a Choice (Even When You Think You Don’t)

2/14/2025

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There’s a common misconception that life is something that happens to us. That we’re just hapless little meat sacks bobbing along in the ocean of existence, getting smacked in the face by the waves of fate. But let me tell you something that might just make you sit up and spill your coffee (blasphemy!): you always have a choice. Always.

Now, before you roll your eyes and say, “But John, what about taxes? What about gravity? What about the fact that my neighbor insists on mowing his lawn at 6 a.m. every Saturday like he’s summoning an ancient grass demon?” – I hear you. But even in those situations, you have choices. You might not control the stimulus, but you control your response.

The Fork in the Road (That’s Always There)
Every single moment of your life is a fork in the road. The choices might not always be obvious, and sometimes they look suspiciously like a rock and a hard place, but trust me, they’re there.
For example, let’s say you wake up, stub your toe on the nightstand, and then spill your coffee down your shirt (more Blasphemy!). The universe has given you what seems like a golden opportunity to declare that the whole day is ruined before it even starts. You could grumble, curse your furniture, and sink into a bad mood. That’s one choice.
Or…you could laugh, because honestly, it’s kind of ridiculous. Your furniture isn’t out to get you. The coffee isn’t conspiring against you (quite the contrary). And if you take a deep breath, change your shirt, and move on with your day, suddenly, the whole thing is just a funny little moment rather than a declaration of doom.
See what happened? Same situation. Different choice. Different reality.

Your Reality Is Just a Bunch of Choices Stacked Together
If you ever played with LEGO as a kid, you already understand how reality works. Every single thing in your life—your relationships, your job, your health, your happiness—is built out of little blocks of choices. Some people are building castles. Some people are building dungeons. Some people are just stepping on LEGO bricks over and over and blaming the floor.
Your choices shape your experience. They determine whether you see life as an adventure or a punishment. And here’s the kicker: even not choosing is a choice. Sitting on the fence is a choice. Letting someone else decide for you is a choice. Deciding that you have no choice is, ironically, a choice.

Excuses Are Just Fancy Ways of Avoiding Responsibility
I can already hear someone in the back saying, “Yeah, but what about when life just sucks?” Look, I get it. Life throws curveballs. Some of them hit you in the face. Some of them seem to be coming from a Major League pitcher who’s specifically aiming for your soul. But at the end of the day, how you respond is always up to you.
It’s easy to slip into excuse mode.
  • “I can’t be happy because my boss is a jerk.” (But you choose whether or not you take that personally.)
  • “I have no choice but to stay in this miserable job.” (But you choose whether you look for something better.)
  • “I can’t move forward because of what happened to me in the past.” (But you choose whether you let the past define you.)
Excuses are just ways of handing over your power to someone—or something—else. They’re a way of saying, “I am but a humble potato in the garden of life, waiting for the farmer of fate to dig me up and decide my destiny.” But you’re not a potato. You are a full-fledged creator of your own reality, and you have the power to make choices that shift your experience.

The Myth of “No Other Option”
Ever notice how some people seem to thrive no matter what’s happening around them? That’s not luck. That’s not because the universe decided to hand them a VIP pass while the rest of us were waiting in the general admission line. It’s because they make choices that keep them aligned with the kind of life they want.
The truth is, there is always another option. You might not like it. It might be uncomfortable. It might require effort. But it’s there.
Feeling stuck in a job? You can start learning new skills, looking for another position, or even start your own business.
Stuck in a negative mindset? You can start practicing gratitude, changing your inner dialogue, or spending time with more positive people.
Feeling overwhelmed? You can choose to take a break, set better boundaries, or simplify your life.
When you tell yourself, “I have no choice,” what you’re really saying is, “I don’t want to make the hard choice.” And that’s fine! But own it. Own the fact that you are choosing—just choosing not to change.

Small Choices, Big Impact
The funny thing about choices is that even the tiny ones make a difference. Ever notice how one small change can create a ripple effect?
Choosing to smile at a stranger might brighten their day, which might lead them to be kinder to someone else, which might eventually lead to a chain reaction that changes a whole community. Choosing to take care of your body might give you more energy, which helps you make better choices, which then leads to a more fulfilling life.
The little things add up. And the best part? You don’t have to overhaul your entire life overnight. Just start with one conscious choice at a time.

The Final Choice
At the end of the day, the biggest choice you have is this: Are you going to live as a victim of circumstance, or as a creator of your own reality?
If you choose to be a victim, you’ll always find reasons why life is against you. You’ll find evidence that you’re powerless. You’ll see roadblocks instead of possibilities.
But if you choose to be a creator? You’ll start to see life as a playground instead of a battlefield. You’ll recognize that challenges aren’t punishments—they’re opportunities to make new choices. You’ll realize that no matter what happens, you still hold the power to shape your own experience.
And once you see that? You’ll never go back to believing you’re just a hapless little meat sack at the mercy of fate. You’ll know, without a doubt, that you are the architect of your own life.
So, what’s it going to be? Victim or creator?
I’d choose wisely if I were you—because that choice? That’s the one that changes everything. (and you'll stop spilling your coffee).  Http://JohnsJoe.com
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Making the Most of the New Year: Jumpstarting Your Awesomeness

1/4/2025

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Ah, the New Year! That magical time when we all decide that this is the year we’ll finally lose weight, save money, and transform into the fully enlightened version of ourselves. Spoiler alert: by February, most of us are back to binge-watching shows, eating cheese straight from the block, and Googling “can you gain weight from thinking about donuts?”
But not this time! This year, we’re going to nail it. We’re going to hit the ground running (or, at the very least, briskly walking to the fridge). And I’m here to help you make the most of it—with a healthy dose of humor, of course.

Forget Resolutions—Make “Fun-olutions”
Let’s face it: the word “resolution” has a lot of pressure attached to it. It’s all about fixing things, which is just a fancy way of saying, “You’re not good enough as you are.” Rude, right?
Instead, let’s flip the script and make fun-olutions. These are goals that light you up, make you laugh, or bring you joy. Want to learn to salsa dance, but your rhythm is somewhere between “spilled spaghetti” and “falling down stairs”? Perfect! Want to try painting even though your last art project looked like Picasso sneezed on a canvas? Do it! The point isn’t to be perfect; it’s to have fun.

Set Goals You Can’t Screw Up
Here’s a genius idea: set goals that are impossible to fail. For example:
  • Drink more water. Even if you just sip from a water bottle between gulps of coffee, you’re succeeding!
  • Breathe every day. If you’re reading this, congratulations—you’re already crushing it!
  • Be nicer to yourself. Every time you stop calling yourself names for forgetting where you left your phone (again), you win.
See? Instant success. You’re already thriving, and it’s not even February yet.

Throw Out the “New Year, New You” Nonsense
The self-help industry loves to tell us we need to become a “new you” every January. But honestly, do we really need a new you? The old you is pretty great, even if they occasionally wear mismatched socks and accidentally reply to emails with emojis that make no sense.
Instead of trying to become a whole new person, focus on being more you. The funnier, kinder, quirker version that shows up when you’re not stressed about impressing anyone. Trust me, that you is awesome.

Declutter Your Life—Or at Least Your Junk Drawer
Every New Year comes with the obligatory pressure to declutter. Suddenly, everyone’s on a Marie Kondo kick, holding up random objects and asking, “Does this spark joy?” (Spoiler: my toaster sparks, but not joy.)
Here’s the thing: you don’t have to toss everything you own to feel refreshed. Start small. Maybe just organize that one junk drawer in the kitchen that somehow contains batteries, a tape measure, a pair of scissors, three coupons from 2017, and a single chopstick. Even a tiny bit of decluttering can feel like a win.

Make Friends with Failure
Let’s get real: you’re going to mess up. You’ll skip the gym. You’ll eat dessert instead of kale. You might even spend an entire day in pajamas, binging an embarrassing reality show. Guess what? That’s fine. Failure is just proof you’re trying.
So when you fall off the wagon (or get run over by it), laugh it off and climb back on. You don’t need a perfect streak to make progress. A good life isn’t about never failing; it’s about getting back up, dusting off the Dorito crumbs, and trying again.

Start Small, Dream Big
We all love the idea of massive, dramatic change: “This year, I’m going to climb Everest, learn Mandarin, and become a professional ukulele player!” But let’s be honest—that’s a lot. And by January 3rd, you’ll be staring at your untouched ukulele thinking, “What was I smoking?”
Instead, start small. Take one step toward a big dream. Want to get in shape? Start by walking around the block or doing a single push-up. Want to write a novel? Start with one paragraph. The smaller the step, the easier it is to keep moving.

Celebrate Weird Holidays
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Sure, everyone celebrates New Year’s Day, but why stop there? January is full of ridiculous “holidays” that are just begging to be celebrated. For example:
  • January 2nd: National Buffet Day (a great excuse to eat more than one dessert)
  • January 9th: National Clean Your Desk Day (or, as I call it, “Stack Papers Neatly and Call It Organized Day”)
  • January 21st: National Hugging Day (warning: always ask first!)
Find silly reasons to celebrate all year long. It’s way more fun than waiting for the big holidays.

Embrace the Power of “Good Enough”
Perfection is overrated. In fact, perfection is the enemy of progress. So instead of trying to get everything “just right,” aim for “good enough.”
Your workout doesn’t have to look like a fitness influencer’s Instagram reel. A walk around the block while listening to 80s rock is good enough. Dinner doesn’t have to be gourmet; if it’s edible and didn’t set off the smoke alarm, it’s good enough. Life isn’t a competition, folks—it’s a celebration of “good enough” moments.

Surround Yourself with Positivity (and Snacks
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The people you hang out with can make or break your year. So ditch the energy vampires and surround yourself with folks who make you laugh, encourage your dreams, and don’t judge you for eating frosting straight from the tub.
While you’re at it, stock up on snacks. Because let’s be real: snacks make everything better. Bad day? Cheese crackers. Big win? Chocolate chip cookies. Celebrating the fact that it’s Tuesday? Popcorn. Positivity and snacks: the ultimate combo.

Don’t Take Yourself Too Seriously
At the end of the day, the best way to make the most of the New Year is to keep your sense of humor. Laugh at yourself when you trip over your own shoelaces. Giggle when your dog interrupts your yoga session by licking your face. Snort when you accidentally send a text to the wrong person.
Life’s too short to be serious all the time. If you can laugh at the little things, you’ll find joy in even the most mundane moments—and isn’t that what a great year is all about?

Create a “Ta-Da!” List
Instead of obsessing over a “to-do” list, create a “ta-da!” list. Write down all the awesome things you accomplish, no matter how small. Did you make your bed? Ta-da! Did you call a friend just to say hi? Ta-da! Did you resist the urge to comment on a stranger’s Facebook argument? Ta-da!
A “ta-da!” list is a reminder of how much you’re already doing right. And if it gets too long, you can always brag about it to your friends. (“Oh, this? Just my ta-da list. No big deal.”)

Remember, It’s Your Year—Own It 
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At the end of the day, the New Year isn’t about resolutions, goals, or becoming a different person. It’s about living your life the way that makes you happiest. Whether that means learning a new skill, eating more tacos, or finally mastering the art of folding fitted sheets (a true spiritual practice, if you ask me), the year is yours to create.
So go ahead—be messy, be weird, be yourself. Because if you’re having fun, laughing often, and enjoying the ride, you’re already making the most of the New Year. And that, my friend, is worth celebrating.
Happy New Year! 🎉
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Celebrating Christmas: Honoring a Man Named Jeshua (Not a Deity Named Christ)

12/17/2024

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Ah, Christmas. The time of year when people decorate their homes with twinkling lights, stress about what socks to buy their uncle, and sip hot cocoa while Michael Bublé emerges like a musical groundhog who senses the snow. It’s also the season when we collectively celebrate a man named Jeshua (Jesus,) or at least, that’s how it all started. Somewhere along the line, though,  the man became Jesus the Christ, a full-fledged deity.
But here’s the thing: No choir ever sang when he entered the room. He was a man. A teacher. A guy with sandals and a message so powerful that even 2,000 years later, we’re still talking about him. So, let’s take a moment to dust off the ornaments and unwrap the truth about this holiday: Christmas is really about celebrating the man named Jeshua—not some mystical, unattainable deity.
And don’t worry, we’ll keep it light and festive, with a touch of humor—because I promise you, Jeshua had a great sense of humor too. How else could he have dealt with 12 disciples bickering about who was the greatest without rolling his eyes and sighing, “Oy vey, Peter…”?

Jeshua the Man: More Relatable Than You Think
Let’s start with the basics. Jesus wasn’t born in a palace with gold-plated furniture and angels singing backup vocals. Legend has it H\he was born in a stable (though many scholars whole heartedly disagree.) You know, the kind of place with straw, animals, and that distinct “eau de cow” aroma. Now, let’s be honest: if someone told you the Messiah was going to show up in a barn next to a goat named Clarence, you’d probably say, “Yeah, right.”
The birth story was of a humble origin—and that’s kind of the point. He wasn’t here to be untouchable or divine in a way that no one could relate to. He came into this world just like you and me: a human being. And he lived his life like one, too.
Think about it. He got tired. He got frustrated. He told stories with punchlines—parables that had more layers than a holiday fruitcake. And the guy knew how to throw a party! You don’t get labeled a “glutton and a wine-drinker” unless you’ve been to a few good shindigs. (For the record, He was neither of those things, but he enjoyed the heck out of weddings and dinners with friends.)
Jeshua was a man who loved people deeply, taught with wisdom, and lived his truth without shame. That’s worth celebrating, isn’t it?

Christmas Got a Little... Complicated
Now, I’m not saying we shouldn’t acknowledge the divine. But somewhere between the manger and the mistletoe, people turned Jeshua into something superhuman—an image of a Christ that feels distant, perfect, and sometimes downright intimidating.
You see, when we focus on "Jesus the Christ", the deity, we can miss out on what made him so remarkable as a man. He was born into a troubled world full of division, inequality, and strife—sound familiar? Yet he stood up, walked among the people, and taught one revolutionary idea: love one another. That’s not just divine wisdom; that’s real, practical, boots-on-the-ground advice for how to live.
Here’s a modern example. If he were walking around today, he’d probably be the guy who buys coffee for a stranger, listens to your troubles without judgment, and gives hugs that make you forget why you were stressed about your uncle’s socks in the first place. That’s Jesus the man—not some ethereal being floating two inches above the ground.

A Humorous Take on the Holiday
Let’s address the big man in the red suit, shall we? Santa Claus has become the unofficial mascot of Christmas, and I’m pretty sure Jeshua doesn’t mind. After all, Santa’s whole shtick is giving generously, spreading joy, and making kids believe in something magical. If that’s not a Christmas spirit that He can get behind, I don’t know what is.
But can you imagine Jeshua at a modern Christmas party? Picture this:

Host: “Jesus, can I get you a drink?”
Jesus: “Just water, thanks.” (winks)

And you know Jeshua would be the guy laughing with the kids, giving quiet words of encouragement to the stressed-out mom, and gently reminding Uncle Larry that, no, he doesn’t need to win every political argument at dinner.
Why? Because Jesus the man embodied kindness, humility, and compassion—the very things Christmas is supposed to be about. And none of that requires you to worship him as a divine being. You can simply honor him as a great teacher who knew how to love, live, and laugh.

Keeping Jeshua Real This Christmas
So, how do we celebrate Christmas while honoring the man instead of the Christ? Simple:
  1. Be Kind: Take a page out of his playbook and love one another—even when Aunt Carol starts talking about her 47 cats.
  2. Be Present: He wasn’t rushing from one thing to the next. He was fully present with the people he loved. Slow down, enjoy the moment, and really listen to the people around you.
  3. Find the Humor: You think life in ancient Judea was easy? Jeshua laughed. He teased his disciples. He found joy wherever he went. If he can do it, so can you—even if the turkey burns or the tree falls over.
  4. Give Freely: Gifts don’t have to be expensive. He gave the gift of his time, his wisdom, and his love. That’s priceless.
  5. Live Your Truth: Jeshua didn’t try to please everyone. He knew his purpose and walked his path with integrity. This Christmas, remember that being true to yourself is the best gift you can give to the world.

Wrapping It All Up (With a Big Red Bow)
Christmas doesn’t have to be about worshiping a far-off deity. It can be about honoring the man who started it all—Jeshua of Nazareth. The teacher. The carpenter. The guy who turned water into wine and reminded us that the greatest commandment is love.
So this Christmas, let’s keep it simple. Let’s celebrate the human being who taught us how to live with compassion, laughter, and joy. After all, he’s the reason for the season—and he’s also someone we can actually relate to.
Now go ahead, pour yourself some eggnog, hug your family, and remember what Jeshua really stood for: loving one another. Because if he were at your Christmas dinner, he wouldn’t care how fancy the table settings were. He’d care about the love being shared around the table.
And maybe… just maybe… he’d bring a little extra wine. ;)
Merry Christmas!
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Unlock the Power of Now: Embrace Every Moment with Joy and Clarity!

12/5/2024

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Ah, the present moment. That elusive sliver of time wedged between "what was" and "what’s next." Most of us treat it like a boring relative at a family gathering—ignored, underappreciated, and often left out of the conversation entirely. But what if I told you that this very moment is the secret sauce to a joyful, fulfilling life? That if you unlock the power of now, you’d be on the express train to inner peace, profound clarity, and maybe even better parking spots? (Okay, the last one might seem like a stretch, but hey, I've been doing it for decades.)
Let’s break it down with a little humor, a touch of spiritual wisdom, and just enough self-awareness to make your ego squirm in its seat.

The Past: The Highlight Reel That Never Stops Replaying
First, let’s address the past. Oh, the good ol’ days—when gas was cheap, knees didn’t crack, and you could remember your neighbor's dog's name. Nostalgia is seductive. It wraps its arms around you like a warm blanket, and suddenly, you’re smiling about that one time you got kicked out of gym class for inventing interpretive dodgeball. But here’s the kicker: the past is done. Kaput. The highlight reel only plays in your head.
Living in the past is like trying to eat leftovers you threw out last week—unsatisfying and potentially toxic. Yet, many of us cling to it, whether it’s regrets, grudges, or glory days. Why? Because the past feels familiar, and the familiar feels safe. But here’s the truth: you can’t change it. You can, however, change how you let it define you.
Release the past, my friend. It’s like holding a grudge against the weather for raining on your vacation—it’s pointless, and it only ruins your day.

The Future: The Land of "What If"
Then, there’s the future. The great unknown, where everything feels possible—and also terrifying. It’s like staring into the fridge, hoping something delicious magically appears, only to realize you still need to go grocery shopping.
We spend so much time stressing about "what’s next" that we forget to enjoy "what’s now." We craft elaborate plans, obsess over worst-case scenarios, and daydream about what life will be like when we finally have enough money, lose the weight, or find that one sock that disappeared in 1998. Spoiler alert: life is happening while you’re busy trying to solve the mystery of the missing sock.
Here’s a spiritual truth wrapped in a comedic bow: the future is just a figment of your imagination. It doesn’t exist yet, and when it does, guess what? It will show up as… the present moment. Wild, huh?

Why the Present Is the Best Show in Town
Now let’s talk about the star of this blogpost: the present moment. The big, shiny "NOW." It’s the only time you ever actually have. Think about it. You can’t act in the past. You can’t do anything in the future. Every decision, every breath, every moment of joy happens in the now.
But here’s the problem: most of us are so busy ruminating on the past or fretting about the future that we miss the now entirely. It’s like being at a concert and spending the whole time recording it on your phone—you miss the music because you’re too busy trying to preserve it for later.
The power of now lies in its simplicity. You don’t have to analyze it, fix it, or plan it. All you have to do is experience it. And here’s the kicker: when you fully embrace the present moment, it has this magical way of clarifying everything. The noise quiets down, the drama dissipates, and you’re left with pure, unadulterated clarity.

How to Embrace the Now (Without Feeling Like a Zen Cliché)
Okay, so how do you actually unlock the power of now? Don’t worry, I won’t tell you to sit cross-legged on a mountain and chant "Om" until enlightenment strikes. (Unless you’re into that—then, by all means, go for it.)
Here are some practical, and dare I say humorous, ways to get started:
1. Breathe Like You Mean It 
Breathing is underrated. Sure, we all do it, but how often do you pay attention to it? Take a deep breath and exhale right now. Go ahead, I’ll wait. Did you feel that? The instant calm? Breathing is like a reset button for your brain. It anchors you in the now faster than you can say "namaste."
2. Stop Multi-Tasking (Your Brain Will Thank You)
Multi-tasking is a myth. You’re not a computer, and even computers crash under too many tabs. Focus on one thing at a time. Whether you’re washing dishes, walking the dog, or eating a taco, give it your full attention. You’d be amazed how much joy can come from a single, perfectly crispy taco shell.
3. Laugh at Yourself (Often)
Nothing brings you into the present moment like a good laugh—especially if it’s at your own expense. Life is funny, and so are you. Embrace your quirks, your mistakes, and those moments when you trip over your own feet in public. Humor dissolves ego, and ego is the biggest thief of now.
4. Feel All the Feels
Joy, sadness, anger, love—whatever emotion comes up, feel it fully. Don’t shove it down or brush it aside. Emotions are like houseguests—they’re easier to deal with when you acknowledge them and let them move on naturally.
5. Gratitude
Gratitude is the fast pass to present-moment bliss. Take a minute each day to appreciate what you have, right now. Your comfy chair, your favorite coffee mug, the fact that you’ve made it this far in the essay—whatever it is, soak it in.

The Rewards of Living in the Now
When you unlock the power of now, life transforms. Colors seem brighter, food tastes better, and even Mondays feel less menacing. You become more present in your relationships, more focused in your work, and more content with yourself.
The best part? You realize that joy isn’t something you have to chase—it’s right here, waiting for you in the present moment. Clarity isn’t something you have to find—it arises naturally when you stop muddying the waters with past regrets and future anxieties.
Living in the now doesn’t mean you ignore the past or neglect the future. It means you put them in their proper place—as tools for learning and planning, not sources of suffering.

One Final Thought (And a Little Nudge)
Here’s the irony: reading this blogpost is technically a future-focused activity. You’re looking for insights to use later. But don’t worry, I won’t hold it against you. Just promise me this—when you’re done, put your phone down, close your eyes, and take one deep, delicious breath.
Feel the now. Savor it. And then go live it. Because this moment—yes, this one right here—is where all the magic happens.

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Be in the World, But Not of It: Reacting Is a Choice, Not an Obligation

11/29/2024

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Life, my dear readers, can be  like being trapped in a 24/7 improv show with no script and questionable actors. From the moment you open your eyes, the world seems determined to throw curveballs your way. Coffee spills on your shirt? React. Neighbor’s dog starts yapping at 3 a.m.? React. Random stranger posts something ridiculous online? Oh, you mustreact!
The world operates like that overenthusiastic stage director who insists, "There are no small parts, only small actors." Except here’s the twist: You don’t have to play every part the world throws at you. And that, my friends, is the essence of the phrase, “Be in the world, but not of it.” You can stand on the stage without letting the chaos of the play drag you into the absurdity of its plot.
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The World: A Circus with Free Tickets
Let’s face it: the world is a bit of a circus. There’s the constant honking of clowns, the high-wire acts of balancing bills and relationships, and the lion tamers of politics trying to keep the beasts at bay. The world demands your attention like a needy toddler pulling on your pant leg while you’re trying to have an adult conversation.
And the toddler doesn’t stop. If one thing isn’t poking you for a reaction, another thing will. “Did you hear what she said about you?” “Have you seen the latest news?” “Why aren’t you more upset about this?” Life seems to come with an unspoken rule: You must care deeply, loudly, and immediately about everything.
But here’s the good news. That rule? It’s as fake as a reality show romance.

Reacting Is Optional
Here’s the thing nobody tells you: reacting is a choice. Yep, you heard me. Despite what your brain and that fiery comment section on Facebook might say, you are under no obligation to engage with every annoyance, provocation, or existential crisis that crosses your path.
The next time life hands you a steaming pile of drama, take a moment to ask yourself, “Do I really want to wade into this mess?” It’s like being at a buffet where some of the dishes look amazing, and others smell like a bad decision. You wouldn’t eat the mystery meat just because it’s there, so why chew on every emotional reaction life serves up?

The Freedom of Not Taking the Bait
Being “in the world” means acknowledging that you’re surrounded by potential triggers—some minor, like your coffee being lukewarm (blasphemy!), and some major, like a heated political debate at Thanksgiving dinner. But being “not of it” means refusing to let those triggers define your state of mind.
Picture yourself at a lake. Someone throws a stone, and ripples spread across the water. Now, you can either be the water, reacting to every pebble tossed your way, or you can be the still, steady shoreline, observing without losing your cool.
“But John,” I hear you say, “What about the big stuff? The stuff that really matters?” Ah, yes. Let’s talk about that.

When It Matters, Choose Your Response
Choosing not to react doesn’t mean you become some emotionless robot, gliding through life with a blank stare. It’s about deciding when, where, and how to respond. If something genuinely aligns with your values and deserves your energy, by all means, step in. But do it with intention, not out of knee-jerk reactivity.
Let’s say someone cuts you off in traffic. Your initial reaction might be to unleash a stream of colorful language that would make a sailor blush. But ask yourself: Will this improve my day? Will it fix their driving? Will it bring about world peace? Probably not. Instead, you could laugh, wave (preferably with all five fingers), and remind yourself that you’re not auditioning for a role as the World’s Angriest Commuter.
On the flip side, when your friend is going through a tough time and needs support, reacting with love and kindness is a conscious choice that aligns with your higher self. See the difference?

Mastering the Art of Non-Reaction
Non-reaction is a superpower. It’s like being Neo in The Matrix, dodging the bullets of negativity with grace and style. And it starts with a simple truth: you are not your emotions. You might feel anger, frustration, or sadness, but those feelings don’t have to run the show.
Try this: the next time something ruffles your feathers, pause. Exhale. Do it again if the situation involves your ex. Ask yourself, “Is this worth my peace?” Nine times out of ten, the answer is no.

Laughter: The Ultimate Detachment Tool
One of the best ways to avoid getting sucked into the drama of the world is to laugh at it. Laughter is like a spiritual magic trick—it instantly shifts your perspective and reminds you not to take life too seriously.
Got stuck in a ridiculous argument? Laugh at how absurd it is that two human beings are squabbling over whether pineapple belongs on pizza (it does, by the way). Lost your keys for the third time this week? Laugh at the fact that you’re essentially playing hide-and-seek with inanimate objects. Humor has a way of deflating the tension and reminding you that life is, at its core, a beautifully messy comedy.

Living the Phrase
“Be in the world, but not of it” doesn’t mean retreating to a mountaintop and meditating away the rest of your days (unless that’s your thing, in which case, send me a postcard). It means participating in life without letting it consume you.
It’s about dancing through life without getting stuck in the mud of every little irritation. It’s about choosing your battles—and more importantly, choosing your peace. It’s about knowing that while the world may be a circus, you don’t have to be the clown.
So, the next time life throws a pie in your face, ask yourself: Do I want to throw one back, or do I want to step out of the tent altogether? The choice, as always, is yours.

Final Thoughts
You are not here to be a puppet, jerked around by the strings of the world’s chaos. You are here to be the calm in the storm, the observer of the drama, the peaceful shoreline watching the waves crash and recede.
Reacting is optional. Peace is always an option. And humor? Well, that’s the cherry on top of this cosmic sundae.
So, go forth, my friends. Be in the world, but don’t let it stick to you like gum on your shoe. Physical Life is too short—and too funny—for that.
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The Hilarity of Thankfulness: Finding Gratitude in a World That Steals Your Parking Space

11/26/2024

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Thankfulness. It’s a word we toss around like a hot potato at Thanksgiving, yet half the time, we’re more focused on wrestling the last turkey leg from Aunt Mildred than truly being thankful. But gratitude, my friends, is a superpower—right up there with invisibility and the ability to fold a fitted sheet. And the best part? It doesn’t even require a cape. Let’s dive into this often-overlooked virtue with the humor, honesty, and occasional sarcasm you’ve come to expect from yours truly.

A Lesson in Gratitude: Courtesy of the Guy Who Cut Me Off
The other day, while cruising to my favorite coffee shop ( yes sometimes I suffer with store bought coffee), a guy in a sports car swerved in front of me, nearly taking out my bumper and my faith in humanity. My initial reaction wasn’t thankfulness, unless we’re thanking the universe for giving us creative ways to use four-letter words. But then I thought, “What if I could be thankful for him?”
So I did. I thanked him for reminding me how lucky I am to drive a car that doesn’t make me look like I’m overcompensating. I thanked him for reminding me I have the power to choose peace over road rage. And suddenly, I felt better—not about him (let’s not get crazy), but about myself. I also felt sorry for his need to feel in such a hurry.Gratitude is funny that way. It doesn’t always change the situation, but it changes you.

Thankfulness Isn’t a Competition
We’ve all encountered those gratitude ninjas who make us feel like amateurs. You know the type: “Oh, you’re thankful for your health? Well, I’m thankful for the sun rising every day, the air I breathe, and the miracle of the digestive system.” And you’re sitting there like, “I’m just glad my coffee didn’t spill this morning.”
Here’s the thing: gratitude isn’t a competition. If you’re thankful for not stepping on a LEGO barefoot, you’re doing it right. Life isn’t about monumental moments; it’s about the little wins—like finding your phone before it goes to voicemail.

From Big to Small: The Gratitude Buffet
If life is a buffet, gratitude is the plate. You can pile it high with big-ticket items, like family, love, and health, or sprinkle it with smaller delicacies, like your favorite Netflix show or the fact that your neighbor finally took down their Halloween decorations (it’s November, Lady).
The trick is to acknowledge it all. Be thankful for the big stuff and the small stuff. Be thankful for the life-changing events and the days when your Wi-Fi doesn’t buffer during a Zoom call. Gratitude is like a muscle—the more you flex it, the stronger it gets. Just don’t skip “leg day,” or you’ll end up lopsided, only noticing the bad stuff.

Why Gratitude Works (Even When It Feels Like a Joke)
On the John of New channel, I’ve talked a lot about how our thoughts shape our reality. Gratitude, at its core, is a Jedi mind trick we play on ourselves. It shifts our focus from what’s wrong to what’s right. And when we focus on what’s right, guess what? We start to notice more of it.
It’s like buying a red car and suddenly seeing red cars everywhere. Gratitude rewires your brain to see abundance instead of lack. So even if you feel ridiculous thanking the universe for that green light, do it. Your brain doesn’t care if it’s big or small—it just registers that you’re focusing on the positive.

Finding Gratitude in the Hard Stuff
Now, let’s address the elephant in the room. (Or is it a turkey? Either way, it’s oversized and awkward.) What about when life feels like a bad sitcom with no laugh track? How do you find gratitude when you’re down in the dumps, out of options, or staring at an empty chocolate wrapper you swore was still full?
Start small. Be thankful for the breath in your lungs, the ground beneath your feet, or the fact that gravity hasn’t flung you into space. Sometimes, life’s blessings are as basic as “I woke up today,” and that’s okay. Gratitude doesn’t erase the hard stuff, but it gives you the strength to face it with a little more grace (and maybe a snarky comment or two).

Thankfulness as a Spiritual Practice
Gratitude isn’t just a feel-good exercise; it’s a spiritual position. It’s about acknowledging the interconnectedness of life and recognizing that, even in our toughest moments, there’s something to be grateful for.
Think about it: every challenge you’ve faced has brought you here, to this moment. Sure, “here” might involve mismatched socks and an empty fridge, but it’s also a place of growth, resilience, and potential. When you approach life with gratitude, you tap into a higher frequency—one that attracts more reasons to be thankful.

The Thankfulness Snowball Effect
Here’s where it gets fun. The more you position yourself in gratitude, the more it multiplies. It’s like a snowball rolling downhill, except instead of getting colder and wetter, you get happier and more fulfilled.
I’ve seen this in my own life and the lives of the folks who tune into the John of New channel. When you start each day with a simple “thank you”—whether it’s to the universe, God, or the barista who spelled your name right—it sets the tone for everything else. Suddenly, you notice the beauty in the mundane, the joy in the ordinary, and the humor in the ridiculous.

A Closing Thought (and a Thank You)
So, as we wrap up this written masterpiece of humor and heartfelt advice, let me leave you with this: thankfulness isn’t about being perfect. It’s about being present. It’s about finding joy in the mess, laughter in the chaos, and blessings in the places you least expect.
And if you’re thankful for nothing else today, be thankful for this blogpost. After all, it’s not every day someone takes the time to make you laugh while encouraging you to be a better human LOL.
Now, go forth and conquer your day with gratitude—and maybe avoid cutting people off in traffic. You never know who might be using it as their next life lesson.
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